ch1v2 'let him kiss me' – she starts by asking the Father for the kisses of the son
'with the kisses of his mouth' – these aren't literal kisses, which might be a bit weird depending on your view of kissing men with beards, but refer to the experience of his love and affection towards us and revelation of his beauty. these are the kisses of his word - his word always provides the boundary lines. 'mouth' throughout the book refers to intimacy. I found this interesting quote by a fella called Jay Treat: “the inseparable love of spirit for spirit can be [expressed] only by a kiss, and a kiss is with the mouth, for that is the source and outlet of the spirit. And when they kiss one another, the spirits cling to each other, and they are one, and then love is one”.
'for your love' – she now addresses Jesus directly
'is better than wine' – this sums up her theology. 'wine' exhilarates and intoxicates the heart, it stood for the best the world had to offer, be it physically, emotionally or spiritually. The affection of God is better than all these things.
v3 'the fragrance of your perfumes' – perfume can't be seen or touched but its presence can be felt. It's symbolic of his internal beauty, his emotional makeup (as opposed to his actions), including his passion for us, and of knowledge of him (2 Cor 2:14). Perfume arouses desire and awakens the heart. Sometimes when I smell a certain perfume it reminds me of someone, or you know when someone's near when you can smell their perfume.
'your name is like perfume poured out' – his name, his attributes being exalted & revealed through his actions is like smelling perfume.
'no wonder the maidens love you' – it's this revelation of his beauty and love for us that causes people to love him back. The maidens and Daughters of Jerusalem that turn up later in the book are genuine but less mature believers.
v4 'take me away with you' – the Hebrew for 'take away' is the same word translated as 'drawn' in Jer 31v3: 'I have drawn you with loving-kindness'. She longs to be drawn after him in greater intimacy.
'let us hurry' – the Hebrew verb here means to run, be a messenger or to bring quickly. This is to do with running in ministry, serving others & obeying God. The two main desires of her life are to be drawn to Jesus in intimacy, and to run with him in ministry as partners..
'bring me into his chambers' – chambers are a place of intimacy. God brings us into in one-off experiences, eg personal revelations, amazing encounters with him etc. She can't get there herself, she has to be brought there by him.
'we will praise your love' – better translated as 'remember your love'. Remembering God's love to us in the past helps us keep going when times are hard.
v5 'dark am I, yet lovely' – she recognises that even though there's sin in her life (dark), she's still beautiful to God. - she has weak flesh but a willing spirit.
'tents of Kedar' – these were made of dark goats hair. The people who lived there were ungodly (see Ps 120v5)
'tent curtains of Solomon' – these, in contrast, were white curtains in the holy place in the temple. This illustrates her weak flesh/willing heart.
v6 'do not stare at me' – she feels shame at her sinfulness.
'darkened by the sun' – she is sinful through life in the natural world.
'my mother's sons were angry' – 'mother' is symbolic of the church, as God uses the church to give birth to us spiritually. The sons are other members of the body of Christ. They were angry with her immature enthusiasm and pride.
'vineyards' – she gets overworked and burns out by having too many responsibilities. Her main responsibility is her own heart ('my own vineyard') and obedient walk before God, but this ends up getting neglected.
v7 'tell me, you whom I love' – even though she's neglected her own vineyard, she still knows she loves him.
'where you graze your flock' – she lost focus of God after her prayer of verses 2-4, but now she wants to be fed by him again.
'where you rest your sheep at midday' – she's tired from working under the heat of the noon sun, and wants his rest (Ps 23v2).
'veiled woman' – she feels ashamed that she's neglected her vineyard, so feels like she needs to cover her face.
'beside the flocks of your friends' – she feels like she's serving God from a distance; she doesn't feel close to him.
v8 'most beautiful of woman' – she feels ashamed, but God affirms her by saying she's beautiful, even in her failure. He then gives three practical bits of advice in response to her wanting to find him and be fed by him
'follow the tracks of the sheep and graze your young goats by the tents of the shepherd' – first he tells her to get into community with other believers who are walking after God (tracks of the sheep), then he says to feed and take care of the flock that he gives her (your young goats, not all the young goats), and finally he says to get under spiritual authority – to serve by the tents of the shepherds (leaders).
v9 'my darling' – Jesus again affirms his affection for her. Whenever he speaks to her in the song, he calls her darling or beautiful or bride. This always sets the tone for the way he relates to us.
'a mare harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh' – she was feeling weak, but he says she's like the strongest, best trained, most disciplined war horses in the world. These were trained to carry the king.
v10 'cheeks' – our cheeks symbolise our emotions.
'beautiful with earrings' – earrings enhance beauty. God sees past our anger and lust and enhances our passion for him.
'neck' – the neck is symbolic of the will and submission. It's the neck that turns the head when choosing which way to go.
'strings of jewels' – our choosing to submit to God's will is as beautiful to him as jewelry.
v11 'we will make' – the Father, Son and Holy Spirit promise to work together with her to finish what they started in her.
'earrings of gold studded with silver' – gold is to do with divine character, while silver is about redemption. God will work in her to give her a divine character & make her someone who brings redemption to others.
v12 'his table' – his table is where we sit and rest with & where he feeds us (Ps 23v5) on the finished work of the cross.
'perfume' – the perfume here is nard, which Mary used to anoint Jesus feet (Jn 12v3), and represents spontaneous worship as we sit with him and feed on his truth (2Cor 2v15).
'my lover is to me' – she's focused on herself, on what she gets from God.
'sachet of myrrh' – myrrh symbolises death & sacrifice. 'sachet' can also be translated as 'bundle' or 'bag', in other words a large amount. She recognises the massive sacrifice he made for her.
'resting' – Zondervans gives the meaning here as 'to spend the night; by extension, to dwell an indeterminate amount of time'.
'between my breasts' – the cross is central to who she is, and sustains her through the night (ie the tough times) and through her whole life.
'cluster of henna blossoms' – henna is a fragrant flower. Jesus is like sweet smelling flowers to her. She doesn't see him as being angry or heavy.
'en gedi' – this was a very fertile oasis, and it's thought perfume was made there.
v15 'how beautiful...oh how beautiful' – we often hide from God from feeling ashamed, but he emphasises how beautiful we are to him. This changes how we see others as, the more we see how God feels about us, the easier it is to see how he feels about others.
'eyes' – her ability to see truth, eyes of faith & vision.
'doves' – doves are symbolic of the Holy Spirit and purity. They have no peripheral vision so can only focus on what's in front of it, and will only ever have one mate so are totally faithful.
v16 'how handsome you are' – she begins to be fascinated with his beauty. When we begin to see how much God enjoys us, we can begin to enjoy him more.
ch1v2 'let him kiss me' – she starts by asking the Father for the kisses of the son
'with the kisses of his mouth' – these aren't literal kisses, which might be a bit weird depending on your view of kissing men with beards, but refer to the experience of his love and affection towards us and revelation of his beauty. 'mouth' throughout the book refers to intimacy. I found this interesting quote by a fella called Jay Treat: “the inseparable love of spirit for spirit can be [expressed] only by a kiss, and a kiss is with the mouth, for that is the source and outlet of the spirit. And when they kiss one another, the spirits cling to each other, and they are one, and then love is one”
'for your love' – she now addresses Jesus directly
'is better than wine' – this sums up her theology. 'wine' exhilarates and intoxicates the heart, it stood for the best the world had to offer, be it physically, emotionally or spiritually. The affection of God is better than all these things.
v3 'the fragrance of your perfumes' – perfume can't be seen or touched but its presence can be felt. It's symbolic of his internal beauty, his emotional makeup (as opposed to his actions), including his passion for us, and of knowledge of him (2 Cor 2:14). Perfume arouses desire and awakens the heart. Sometimes when I smell a certain perfume it reminds me of someone, or you know when someone's near when you can smell their perfume.
'your name is like perfume poured out' – his name, his attributes being exalted & revealed through his actions is like smelling perfume.
'no wonder the maidens love you' – it's this revelation of his beauty and love for us that causes people to love him back. The maidens and Daughters of Jerusalem that turn up later in the book are genuine but less mature believers.
v4 'take me away with you' – the Hebrew for 'take away' is the same word translated as 'drawn' in Jer 31v3: 'I have drawn you with loving-kindness'. She longs to be drawn after him in greater intimacy.
'let us hurry' – the Hebrew verb here means to run, be a messenger or to bring quickly. This is to do with running in ministry, serving others & obeying God. The two main desires of her life are to be drawn to Jesus in intimacy, and to run with him in ministry as partners..
'bring me into his chambers' – chambers are a place of intimacy. God brings us into in one-off experiences, eg personal revelations, amazing encounters with him etc. She can't get there herself, she has to be brought there by him.
'we will praise your love' – better translated as 'remember your love'. Remembering God's love to us in the past helps us keep going when times are hard.
v5 'dark am I, yet lovely' – she recognises that even though there's sin in her life (dark), she's still beautiful to God. - she has weak flesh but a willing spirit.
'tents of Kedar' – these were made of dark goats hair. The people who lived there were ungodly (see Ps 120v5)
'tent curtains of Solomon' – these, in contrast, were white curtains in the holy place in the temple. This illustrates her weak flesh/willing heart.
v6 'do not stare at me' – she feels shame at her sinfulness.
'darkened by the sun' – she is sinful through life in the natural world.
'my mother's sons were angry' – 'mother' is symbolic of the church, as God uses the church to give birth to us spiritually. The sons are other members of the body of Christ. They were angry with her immature enthusiasm and pride.
'vineyards' – she gets overworked and burns out by having too many responsibilities. Her main responsibility is her own heart ('my own vineyard') and obedient walk before God, but this ends up getting neglected.
v7 'tell me, you whom I love' – even though she's neglected her own vineyard, she still knows she loves him.
'where you graze your flock' – she lost focus of God after her prayer of verses 2-4, but now she wants to be fed by him again.
'where you rest your sheep at midday' – she's tired from working under the heat of the noon sun, and wants his rest (Ps 23v2).
'veiled woman' – she feels ashamed that she's neglected her vineyard, so feels like she needs to cover her face.
'beside the flocks of your friends' – she feels like she's serving God from a distance; she doesn't feel close to him.
v8 'most beautiful of woman' – she feels ashamed, but God affirms her by saying she's beautiful, even in her failure. He then gives three practical bits of advice in response to her wanting to find him and be fed by him
'follow the tracks of the sheep and graze your young goats by the tents of the shepherd' – first he tells her to get into community with other believers who are walking after God (tracks of the sheep), then he says to feed and take care of the flock that he gives her (your young goats, not all the young goats), and finally he says to get under spiritual authority – to serve by the tents of the shepherds (leaders).
v9 'my darling' – Jesus again affirms his affection for her. Whenever he speaks to her in the song, he calls her darling or beautiful or bride. This always sets the tone for the way he relates to us.
'a mare harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh' – she was feeling weak, but he says she's like the strongest, best trained, most disciplined war horses in the world. These were trained to carry the king.
v10 'cheeks' – our cheeks symbolise our emotions.
'beautiful with earrings' – earrings enhance beauty. God sees past our anger and lust and enhances our passion for him.
'neck' – the neck is symbolic of the will and submission. It's the neck that turns the head when choosing which way to go.
'strings of jewels' – our choosing to submit to God's will is as beautiful to him as jewelry.
v11 'we will make' – the Father, Son and Holy Spirit promise to work together with her to finish what they started in her.
'earrings of gold studded with silver' – gold is to do with divine character, while silver is about redemption. God will work in her to give her a divine character & make her someone who brings redemption to others.
v12 'his table' – his table is where we sit and rest with & where he feeds us (Ps 23v5) on the finished work of the cross.
'perfume' – the perfume here is nard, which Mary used to anoint Jesus feet (Jn 12v3), and represents spontaneous worship as we sit with him and feed on his truth (2Cor 2v15).
'my lover is to me' – she's focused on herself, on what she gets from God.
'sachet of myrrh' – myrrh symbolises death & sacrifice. 'sachet' can also be translated as 'bundle' or 'bag', in other words a large amount. She recognises the massive sacrifice he made for her.
'resting' – Zondervans gives the meaning here as 'to spend the night; by extension, to dwell an indeterminate amount of time'.
'between my breasts' – the cross is central to who she is, and sustains her through the night (ie the tough times) and through her whole life.
'cluster of henna blossoms' – henna is a fragrant flower. Jesus is like sweet smelling flowers to her. She doesn't see him as being angry or heavy.
'en gedi' – this was a very fertile oasis, and it's thought perfume was made there.
v15 'how beautiful...oh how beautiful' – we often hide from God from feeling ashamed, but he emphasises how beautiful we are to him. This changes how we see others as, the more we see how God feels about us, the easier it is to see how he feels about others.
'eyes' – her ability to see truth, eyes of faith & vision.
'doves' – doves are symbolic of the Holy Spirit and purity. They have no peripheral vision so can only focus on what's in front of it, and will only ever have one mate so are totally faithful.
v16 'how handsome you are' – she begins to be fascinated with his beauty. When we begin to see how much God enjoys us, we can begin to enjoy him more.
'our bed' – the bed is a place of rest, security & intimacy. It is 'our' bed – they are co-heirs.
'verdant' – it is flourishing, life-filled.
v17 – 'our house' is about their intimate living together. The beams and rafters provide the structure. Cedars and firs were strong wood – God has built a strong, lasting house for us.